Learning Disability Week: How We Can All Do Better to Support Friends and Peers with Learning Disabilities

This week is Learning Disability Week, and this year’s powerful theme “Do You See Me?” invites all of us to pause, reflect, and ask ourselves this question…

Are we truly seeing, hearing, and valuing the people around us – especially those with learning disabilities?

For many, learning disabilities can be invisible. They’re not always obvious at first glance, and that’s exactly why this week is so important. It’s a time to recognise that visibility isn’t just about what we see; it’s about truly understanding, respecting, and supporting one another, especially when someone’s struggles may not be obvious to the naked eye.

As someone who lives with several hidden disabilities following a brain injury, I know firsthand how vital it is for my own mental wellbeing that people not only acknowledge what I go through, but make an effort to understand it. When someone takes the time to listen, support, and treat me with patience and empathy, it makes the world of difference. It helps me to feel seen, heard and valued, and that’s what every single person deserves.

Understanding Learning Disabilities

A learning disability affects the way a person understands information and how they communicate. It can impact reading, writing, attention, memory, social interaction, or physical coordination. Some examples include:

  • Dyslexia – affects reading, writing, and spelling
  • Dyscalculia – affects understanding numbers and maths
  • ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) – affects attention, organisation, and impulse control
  • Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) – affects communication, behaviour, and social interaction
  • Dyspraxia (Developmental Coordination Disorder) – affects motor skills and coordination
  • Nonverbal Learning Disabilities (NVLD) – affect spatial and social skills despite strong verbal abilities

Everyone with a learning disability is different and no two experiences are alike, so a “one-size-fits-all” approach just doesn’t work. We need to be open to learning from each person individually, not just about their diagnosis, but about how they want to be supported.

The Power of Being Seen, Heard, and Valued

  • To be seen is to be acknowledged
  • To be heard is to feel like our words and emotions matter
  • To be valued is to be accepted and appreciated for who we are

For people with learning disabilities, these three things are often denied (sometimes unintentionally), but the impact is huge. They might be underestimated, spoken over, excluded from decisions, or misjudged because their struggles aren’t visible. That isolation can be disheartening and very damaging to that individual.

This is why Learning Disability Week is not just for people with learning disabilities, it’s for everyone! It’s a time to check in with ourselves and reflect on how we can be more respectful, inclusive, and aware.

Respect Starts With Listening

One of the most powerful things we can do for each other is listen without judgement.

Often, we rush through conversations, get distracted or are already thinking of what we’ll say next. But active listening means giving someone your full attention and trying to understand things from their point of view.

Respecting others also means respecting different communication styles. Some people may need longer to process information or express themselves in non-verbal ways, but that doesn’t make their voice any less important.

Try to:

  • Validate feelings, even if you don’t fully understand
  • Ask open questions like “How can I support you today?” or “Would you like to share how you’re feeling?”
  • Give people time and space to respond
  • Avoid interrupting or finishing sentences for them

Treat Others How You Wish to Be Treated

We often hear the phrase, “Be kind – you never know what someone is going through.” It might sound like a cliché, but it holds real truth and value.

Living with hidden disabilities myself, I’ve faced judgement, impatience, and assumptions more times than I can count. On the surface, I may look “fine,” but inside, I’m struggling to keep up. It takes energy, courage, and resilience, and what helps most is not pity, but compassion and understanding.

So, I challenge you to check in with yourself today:

  • How do you speak to people who are different from you?
  • Do you give others the benefit of the doubt?
  • Are you kind to yourself, too?

Respect isn’t just about how we treat others—it’s also how we treat ourselves. When we show ourselves compassion, we’re more likely to extend it to those around us.

Practical Ways to Be Inclusive and Supportive

Creating a supportive and inclusive environment doesn’t require huge gestures, it’s about consistent, conscious effort. Here are a few ways to start:

1. Educate Yourself

Take the time to learn about different learning disabilities. Understand the signs, challenges, and strengths associated with each of them, because awareness is the first step toward meaningful support.

2. Be an Ally

Stand up for people when they’re being misunderstood, mocked, or excluded. Advocate for accessibility whether it’s in the workplace, classroom, or social settings.

3. Challenge Stereotypes

Avoid labels like “lazy” or “slow” as these are damaging and inaccurate. People with learning disabilities are often creative, intelligent, and highly capable with the right support!

4. Make Space for All Voices

If someone struggles in a group setting, offer alternatives like one-on-one check-ins or written communication. Don’t assume silence means disinterest.

5. Use Clear and Inclusive Communication

Break down complex instructions by using plain language and repeat if needed. Check that you’ve been understood without being patronising.

6. Practice Self-Reflection

Ask yourself: Am I creating a space where people feel safe and respected? What can I do better? We all have biases to unlearn, and growth comes from honest reflection.

Simple Everyday Actions That Make a Difference

  • Pause before reacting – Think about what someone might be dealing with.
  • Smile and make eye contact – These small gestures go a long way in making someone feel acknowledged.
  • Avoid assumptions – Don’t judge someone’s capabilities by how they look or communicate.
  • Celebrate small wins – What may seem minor to you might be a huge victory for someone else.
  • Encourage and uplift – A kind word can have a lasting impact.

Let’s Challenge Stereotypes Together

Everyone deserves to be seen for who they truly are and not just for what they struggle with. Let’s stop defining people by what they can’t do and start appreciating what they can do.

We all want the same things: to be accepted, to feel safe, and to be treated with dignity.

So this week, ask yourself:

  • Do I truly see the people around me?
  • Am I listening with care?
  • Am I creating a world where everyone feels valued?

Extend that kindness, not just to those with learning disabilities, but to yourself, your friends, your colleagues, and strangers you pass on the street.

Because we never know what invisible battles others are fighting. But what we do know is that a little more understanding can make the world a whole lot better for everyone. Let’s commit to seeing, hearing, and valuing each other – this week and alwa

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